Fight the Frump -Beware of Extremes!

This week let's embrace moderation. Just like everything else in life, going to extremes can be dangerous. Well, in this case, maybe not exactly dangerous, but definitely unfashionable!

From now on when you look in your closet and when you shop for shoes, ask your self a question-

"Are those shoes ugly?"

Aw, come on Friends of Fussy, you know you can tell. Let common sense be your guide. Your budget could be $20 or $350. Forget budget, money never makes up for a lack of taste.

1) Let's talk about Trendy Ugly.

I give you the uber-popular Spectator Pump. If you can't wear these through your own house without your hubs and kids busting out in peals of laugher, take them back. If you wear these someone will photograph you in them. People will mock you with photographic evidence for years. I speak from fashion-disaster-induced-mockery experience. ~Fussy Shudders~

"But Fussy, they are so stylish."

OK, stylish is relative. You know who is considered stylish by fashion magazines?

Seriously, ignore trends.

2) Let's look at Apathetic Ugly.

These horrific shoes just scream clinical depression.

"But Fussy, they are comfortable."

Oh, no, don't even try that line on me. Lots of shoes are comfortable without looking like you are scooting around with your feet in garbage bags.

~certain readers gasp~ "Fussy, I love my Birkenstocks! I wear them everyday!"

Forgive the blunt tone, but this week I am staging an intervention. You must stop with the frumpy shoes.  These shoes are the equivalent of dressing in caftans.

Wearing frumpy slide-on fugly shoes and a caftan?  I would be forced to revoke your Friend of Fussy membership!

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Now, the good part. Your turn to share your favorite ideas, tips, products and random musings about Fighting the Frump. Remember to link back to this page, use my cute little graphic and have fun!

 

Comments

[karla ~ looking towards heaven]

crap... I was gonna wear that outfit to the next playdate.
So much for dressing to impress...

xo ~K

[Sarah]

Love it, love it, love it! Hope your bedrest is going okay! I've got about 7 weeks to go, but no bedrest for me. Just a busy toddler!

[Photochick (Amanda)]

OH NO!!! Seriously, did I just misspell FRUMP?! Am I THAT TIRED??!! Oh, I feel like such a goober - my first time ever 'Fighting the Frump' & I managed to screw up.

*sigh*

Wish I could go back and fix that... Oh, well! Ya'll were gonna find out what a ditz I am eventually - it's just going to be sooner rather than later, huh?

Happy Frump Fighting, Everyone. Much love to you Fussy - thanks a bunch for letting me take part, and please don't think too badly of me for botching your 'Frump'!

[dcrmom]

Girlfriend. You CUH-rack me up. And THANK you for addressing the two UGLIEST shoe trends ever to hit the runway (or grocery store).

[MizFit]

Im totally outing myself.

I OWN THOSE BIRKENSTOCK BOSTON CLOGS

now, I havent worn em in ages (perhaps since I was nuptialized?) but they are in the closet none the less...

[Sarah]

I want one of those dresses! Hides it all.

Have a great Fight the Frump Friday!

[Carolyn]

Great post. I just love your pics.

I totally agree about the depression shoes.....but you can't take away my Crocs!!!!

Oh.....I am a having my first contest. Pass the word and stop by my blog and enter!!

Carolyn

[Kendra]

I did my post on handbags ~ nothing like an sassy handbag and a classy pair of shoes to accessorize the outfit!

[Valarie in AL]

I am so glad you addressed this issue. Those shoes are bad, bad I tell you.

[Say What?]

Since I can't wear either shoe, I am totally on board!

But what I want to know is how to rid my shoes of the, well, summer funk that can grow in them. You take them off and dogs, cats, and wildebeasts for miles around go running for the hills!

Oh and Fussy-love, you need to get a new BFF! If you are hanging with Paris, you are not only frumping, you are fugging! Look what she made you do to your goh-jus blond hair - she had you add black extensions! Not the best look for the Fabulosity that is Mrs. Fussypants!! lol! Smooches!!

How is Jr. doing???

[Darla]

Oh fine~I'll take that Paris Hilton dress back. It was way too modest for me anyway. bwahahahahah

[Dawn]

I agree about the Crocs, they're Birkenstocks for the non-crunchy. But I try not to wear them outside of the house. Does that qualify me for some Fussy points?

[Joy]

Oh you make me laugh! Those shoes do scream for help!!

[Amy @ Milk Breath & Margaritas]

'Stocks and Crocs - BARF!

You, as always, are correct dear Fussypants.

[Christine @ Serenity How?]

"These horrific shoes just scream clinical depression."

One of the best lines ever. I'm dyin' over here! LOL!

Please tell me my ugly gardening clogs are okay for gardening only. :)

[Mrs. Who]

God, I hate those stupid, ugly Birkenstocks!! Thanks for your support.

[Gina]

I despise all clogs...Birks or any other brand. Do women not realize they make your legs look like tree stumps?

[Carrie]

And Crocs.

Please put down the Crocs already - unless you are a nurse.

[Krista]

Dear Fussy,
I hate to disappoint you like this... but if you do end up moving to Tacoma you'd better get used to those Birkenstock clogs. We're definitely crunchy up here and they are the winter version of the sandals. Yes, I own both and I'm proud of it. It might also have to do with the fact that they actually fit my wide feet comfortably. I originally bought them for work (waitressing) because they were about the only thing that didn't leave me limping after a 6 hour shift.
So, beware! ;)

[mah-meeee]

Oh so true, fussy! I have really seen and owned some truly ugly shoes. Once I get home today, I will for sure look through my closet. I bet I can find a few pairs of fugly shoes!

[Mrs. Fussypants]

Confession- Every male in my family -Hubs & 4 boys have crocs. Say I have to run out in the yard and (scream like a wild woman for the boys to pick the snake down) discreetly call the boys in for tea -I will slip on Hub's crocs for a moment!

Also, yes, they are comfy but we have options! Options that don't force us to scrunch up our toes & slide our shoes across the floor as we walk.

So not sexy. So frupy.

If we move -Poor Tacoma, they won't know what to think of me! ;)

[Darla]

Crocs are good for early summer mornings in the wet grass while you garden, cuz they can be hosed off.

Unless of course fussy is going to do a "gardening" non frumpy post.....then I might be convinced to switch.... hmmmm.....

[Mackenzie's Momma]

Umm, Fussy if you have a problem with Birkenstocks, I would tell hubs to strongly re-consider the job in Tacoma- Birks are a Seattle fashion MUST. Seriously. We pair them with EVERYTHING including SOCKS *gasps* cause ya' know its cold up here.

[Michelle@Life with Three]

I agree -- those spectator pumps (is that what they're called?!?) are hideous. Why some people feel led to wear them is beyond me. I did order a pair of Croc flip flops recently -- they looked cute, not clunky. We'll see when they arrive...

[JackieWks]

Wanna be # 19, but need a mentor to walk me through the steps.

[Heather]

Good rule to live by, in all areas of life!

Sorry I'm not participating today. My brain is on overload so I couldn't think of anything creative to share.

Hope you are resting well! MWAH!

[Darla]

Jackie, I would need one to hold my hand, give me exact instructions and keep fillin my wine glass endlessly.

Shall we give it a go? LOL

[ali]

down with the birkenstock!! can we get rid of the croc as well...while we are at it??!!?!?!

yikes. i can't stand either!

[AlphaDogma]

I use to think birkies were the ugliest thing til I saw MBT shoes. Now those are UGLY shoes. In fact they are so ugly they make birkies look...well, slightly less ugly.

[Jennifer's luvin' Fussy]

Fussy, you always crack me up! Those are pretty ugly and I've got some slippers that need an update but alas they were Christmas gifts from the kiddoes. Time for daddy training for gifts. LOL

[The (Almost) Amazing Mommarino]

"These horrific shoes just scream clinical depression."

"Lots of shoes are comfortable without looking like you are scooting around with your feet in garbage bags."

Bwahhhhhh-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-!!!!!!!

You are a riot!

[Dr. Nicole]

Oh my gosh you are too cute! I need to get photoshop...then I will be unstoppable!

[Dawn]

The secret to successful Birkenstocking is to show cleavage - no one notices your feet then.

OR you must wear Fussy's earrings to distract from your feet :)

[Kelley]

Thankyou Fussy! Now to rid the world of Crocs...

Ugly and 'comfortable' shoes *shudder* that is what is wrong with the world!

[Mom2fur]

Those cloggy things are so sad, aren't they? Get a decent pair of sneakers, if you want comfort. I live in my sneakers.
I saw high heeled work boots once.
And what about those black shoes with soles so thick they look like Frankenstein would wear them?
I hate shoe shopping almost as much as I hate bra shopping. It's all either ugly, impossible, uncomfortable or overpriced.
And, omg, I hope when you and Paris were out on the town, you talked the girl into eating something!

[nancypants]

I love the "scream clinical depression" line! ROFL