Jessica Knows how to get sponsor deals!

 

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I have a secret to success. I surround myself with really amazing women and learn from them. My friend Jessica, of JessicaKnows, is the hardest working woman on the Internet.

She answers email from me late at night**, even though she is going to bed, when I ask her to write some amazing letter, description, article. She makes my blunderingly crazy ideas sound all fancy and polished.

When I asked her to help me teach women how to contact companies to get sponsored to go to blog conferences she said sure! {Of course, 'cause that is how she is}

Then, she disappeared for a week. I hardly saw her. Where did she go? Homegirl was hammering out this little masterpiece ebook/workbook for us. I read it today and it rawked my sawks. She taught me so much, and I host my own blog conference. It proves that there is always more to learn! 

I want to give a copy away today because it is such an amazing resource. If you want to learn how to market yourself and your blog, and want to learn how to rawk it like a bloggy rawkstar then you must read her workbook.

You can enter up to 3 times. To enter-

1) Leave a comment telling everyone about your blog/ your brand. What do you represent in less than 50 words?

2) Visit Jessica Knows.com and tell me which post of hers is your favorite.

3) Twitter about this contest & link the tweet in the comment section below.

Good luck. I will tweet the winner tonight at 6pm and email the winner.

Love, Alli

**don't be emailing her at midnight for help. That's only for me. {giggles}

Blissfully Domestic is taking new applications!

Blissfullydomestic  To know me, is to know my baby, Blissfully Domestic. You've seen me disappear while staying up too late for weeks at a time working on it. You've heard me promote shamelessly. You've stuck with me when our servers crashed every hour. Good times, good times...

 Thanks to the most amazing web developer ever, Daisy Olsen, we are kickin' butt in 2009. Ready to do wonderful things and grow by leaps and bounds!

 Our vision for Blissfully Domestic is simple. A magazine written entirely by 'real' women, who bounce babies on their knees, monitor homework, work all day, and still manage to stay sane. No corporate money, no bosses; just a family of writers working together and sharing a vision. We combine our knowledge in an upbeat, helpful and entertaining way and share it with the world.


The writers are the rawk stars and Blissfully Domestic is the stage on which to shine.

We are thrilled to announce that we are launching new channels this month. We are accepting new writers for each channel. You need not be an expert, just have a passion for the topic, and a desire to help share knowledge with women everywhere. That's pretty awesome, huh?

Here are our new channels-

  • Blissfully Blended- for stepfamilies and beyond
  • Timeless Bliss- for boomers & empty nesters who are living it up
  • Blissful Pets- all things about the kids with fur
  • Blissfully You- all about taking care of yourself
  • Military Bliss- We love our military families
  • Special Needs Bliss- A topic so close to our hearts.
  • Blissfully Divine- We will be featuring the best of Divine Caroline articles

Please send your email to Katie@blissfullydomestic.com to apply to join the Blissfully Domestic family. Be sure to include a link to samples of your writing, your twitter name and a brief blurb telling us how much you rawk. You need not be a professional writer, just have a desire to join our vision.

Also, be sure to follow Blissfully Domestic on Twitter. We tweet our posts through out the day so you can click over to read the articles you love.

Love you all!

xo, alli


Epson Artisan- The Real Scoop

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The Internet has been abuzz with reports of the greatness of the Epson Artisan printer. You may wonder what could be so great about this specific printer.

You wanna know the truth, the real truth?

Ok, because I love you, I will tell you.

The Epson Artisan has been to the moon!

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Ok, maybe not, but it is wireless. When I am sitting on my porch with my trusty laptop watching the boys wrestle in the yard play football, I can still print. Did you hear me, Friends of Fussy? I print from my porch. Magically, the printer in the office has my papers all beautiful and ready when I come in! {swoon}

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The Epson Artisan helped in the Superbowl!

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Ok, that was a stretch, but it does have a sweet scanner that lets me scan my jewelry and I can avoid pulling my hair out from trying to take a decent photo. I just put my jewelry on the scanner and presto! A sweet picture!

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The Epson Artisan stops global warming!

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Or not, but, it makes really cool coloring book pages from anything. The kids scanned in their football cards & favorite picture book graphics to color and create little masterpieces. It prints so fast that my husband is buying one for his office. He can't handle how slow his office printer seems in comparison.

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The Epson Artisan bakes cakes!

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Nah, even better, you can plug in your memory card or flash drive and edit photos on the fancy schamcy display. You can write text on them, too. I did all that before I even read the instructions! Straight outta the box!

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The Epson Artisan won a gold medal!

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Sadly, it is not really waterproof and I do not endorse swimming with your Epson. But, you can put a CD in and it prints on it! Yes, right on the CD. Even I figured it out. Let me tell you, that is amazing. I first used this printer with out reading the manual. :)

More descriptions of the awesomeness of this little machine can be found here.

Epson has not only developed a sweet printer, but they treat the people they work with and their customers with respect and thoughtfulness. I think it is so important for us to support companies that "get it". Epson gets it!

We are soon giving away one of these awesome babies at Blissfully Domestic, and Epson has graciously given our readers a huge discount. $60 off instantly and an extra ink bundle. I love them. Click here!

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Love, Alli

Are you Blissfully Domestic, too?

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Over at Blissfully Domestic, we have exciting news to share with you. Next week we start our much anticipated new Linky! We want to share ideas from the Blissfully Domestic family, send lots of traffic and of course comment love to each other's blogs!

"I am Blissfully Domestic" will run every Tuesday. The wonderful part is you can write about anything that we cover here at Blissfully Domestic. Share how you found the perfect lipstick, share a great Homeschooling tip, brag about how you found a great frugal deal, found the perfect roast recipe, the options are endless!

Monday night at 9pm eastern we will publish the "I am Blissfully Domestic" Linky with a beautiful graphic you can use on your post. All you need to do is link in and then go visit all your friends who link in, too.

We want to all share our tips, tricks and ideas, but we also what to help put the spotlight on YOU! Blissfully Domestic is a labor of love entirely written by wonderful women who have come together to share their knowledge. In the spirit of this, we also want to spotlight you.

When you join the "I am Blissfully Domestic" Linky, please visit 5-10 other linky participants and show your fellow fine blissful ladies some comment love. There are so many wonderful blogs out there who need some love and should have more traffic. We hope this will be a great way to support each other. The post you link in does not need to go live each Tuesday. Find your best post and it just needs to be published anytime in the last 7 days. Easy peasy.

Think about how you can join "I am Blissfully Domestic" and be sure to tell your friends to join in, too. We'll see you there Monday night at 9 eastern.

Love, Alli

Name that Inappropriate Photo

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There is just so much wrong here! Have fun with this one. So go Name that Inappropriate photo!

Love, Alli

**Quick Housekeeping Note**

I have a confession to make. I have not mailed out winning earrings for the contest in two months {cowers}. I think about it, I feel awful, I say, "I'll do it tomorrow." So now I'm in a hole. Halp!!

If you won a Name tht Photo contest please, please email me so I can apologize profusely and mail them A.S.A.P. {blush}

Blissfully Domestic Nashville Blogging Conference- I haz it!

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Blissfully Domestic is hosting our first blogging & social networking conference next month here in beautiful Nashville. We are teaming up with the wonderful people at Epson to host a fun, intimate and informative conference and fun cocktail party.

On Saturday, October 18th, we will host a free {yes, I said free} all-day event  featuring brilliant women from across the globe. All speakers will be on panels sharing our knowledge, tips, secrets and lives. Because we are focusing on Q & A sessions we will limit our attendee size to 75.

We just opened a forum discussion on the Blissfully Domestic Social Network. Please join in. All through the week, the attendees and speakers will be joining in and announcing their involvement.

We will open up registration on Friday and announce the lucky women who get to attend on Monday. If, due to space concerns, you are unable to get a seat, have no fear. We are planning a huge annual blogging conference in February. We think February is a perfect time to escape with our girlfriends for a weekend, don't you?

Now, head on over to the BDLiving Social Network to find out more, add your thoughts & ideas and find out which of your favorite bloggers will be there! Maybe like her, her, her, her, her, her, her, her or her? And that was just to name a few!

Love to you all, Alli

Fight the Frump -Affordable Slimming Jeans

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I found some affordable jeans last weekend that help me hide my extra 30 5 left over pregnancy pounds. They are Levi's slimming jeans and I found some for 30 last weekend at Academy Sports. Why at a sports store, you ask? We were buying more football stuff and little boy *coughsCUPScoughs* for protection. TMI? Sorry.

Anyhoo, back to the jeans, they really do hide the bumpies and make a cute silhouette. Y'all know I detest buying clothes new, and much prefer finding designer treasures at thrift stores, but these are worth it.

What is your favorite item of clothing that makes you look awesome? I'd love to collect a ton of great ideas in the comments from the Friends of Fussy!

Sorry, no Fight the Frump over the last two weeks. Blame my crazy life! If you still are posting your Fight the Frump {oh, I hope so!} Please link in the comment section!

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Hey, you look great! You been losing weight?

Love ya bunches, Alli

BPA, Dangerous Plastics, Boys Adrift, and Scarey Headlines

**I am reposting this from last October because of the FDA finally taking a look at the dangers of BPA {Bisphenol A}. BPA is a chemical in certain types of hard plastics. It is especially common in baby bottles. Please read this post & send to your friends! xoxo, Alli**

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I recently read a wonderful book by family physician, research psychologist, and best selling author Dr. Leonard Sax. His new book, Boys Adrift, answered many of the questions that many mothers of boys have. The most important one being, why in the world do today's boys and young men seem so unmotivated and uninterested in school? How could thing have changed so much in one generation? Why is this not happening in other western nations?

endocrine disruptors because our bodies read them as a hormone- ESTROGEN! Imagine if we purposely gave our sons excess estrogen?  Dr. Sax said,  "There is really a huge and rapidly-growing body of evidence now linking these endocrine disruptors, these environmental estrogens, to many of the phenomena I describe in the book: boys being less motivated, young men having more problems with erectile dysfunction, boys breaking their bones more easily than boys did a generation ago, and so forth." He also said that he prescribes more Viagra for men under 30 than he does for men over 40.

Dr. Sax identifies five factors that work together to put young boys at risk-

1. Changes in education over the past three decades. How has kindergarten changed? Thirty years ago, kindergarten was primarily about socialization. Typical activities then would have included finger-painting, singing in rounds, playing duck-duck-goose, etc. Not any more. Today, kindergarten is first and foremost about teaching literacy and learning basic arithmetic. In 2007, the kindergarten curriculum at most American schools, both public and private, looks very much like the first-grade curriculum of 1977. Nowadays, it’s all about learning to read and write. I have yet to find any replicable studies that prove early forced learning has any long-term benefit at all.

It’s a bad thing because girls’ and boys’ brains develop differently, and for many boys, it’s simply not developmentally appropriate to ask them to learn to read at age five. A distinguished team of 15 neuroscientists, based primarily at the National Institute of Mental Health in Bethesda, MD, recently published a remarkable account of the development of the human brain (see “Recommended Reading”). Since the early 1990s, these investigators have been doing MRI scans on young children’s brains. The team’s July 2007 report was its most definitive account yet. Among the most striking findings were the differences in the developmental trajectories of girls and boys. These researchers have found that the various regions of the brain develop in a different sequence and tempo in girls compared with boys.

It now appears that the brain’s language centers in many five-year-old boys look like the language centers in the brains of the average three-and-a-half-year-old girl. Have you ever tried to teach a three-year-old girl to read? It’s frustrating, both for the teacher and the child. It’s simply not developmentally appropriate, to use the jargon of early childhood educators. You’re asking a young girl to do something that her brain is just not yet ready to do.

Trying to teach many five-year-old boys to read and write may be just as inappropriate. These boys aren’t dumb, any more than three-year-old girls are dumb. Timing is everything—in education as in many other fields. It’s not enough to teach well. You have to do the right thing at the right time. Asking five-year-old boys to learn to read—when they’d rather be running around or playing games—may be the worst possible introduction to school, at least for some boys.

2. Video games. Recent scholarly work demonstrates clearly that some of the most popular video games are distracting boys from real-world pursuits. Many boys spend up to 5 hours a day (school-days) playing these supa-fab realistic games on plasma TVs. Of course, real life gets boring.

3. Medications for ADHD. Medications such as Adderall, Ritalin, Concerta, and Metadate, which are over prescribed, may be causing irreversible damage to the motivational centers of boys’ brains.

4. Endocrine disruptors. Environmental estrogens from plastic bottles and other sources may be throwing boys’ endocrine systems out of whack. Here is a quick intro. to the wonderful world of endocrine disruptors.

5. Devaluation of masculinity. Shifts in popular culture have transformed the role models of manhood. Forty years ago, we had Father Knows Best; today we have The Simpsons. Have y'all noticed that every commercial and sit-com shows the father as a big doofus, and mom being the all-knowing boss? This is especially true for those "kiddie cartoons" on the Disney Channel and Nickelodeon. Every kid is a smartypants genius and the parents are all idiots. I don't allow any of these shows, except Hannah Montana. That one is OK. Sorry, off on a tangent.....Where's my Ritalin? Just kidding!

Any mother of a son over 10 can tell many stories of boys, her own or not, who seem absolutely hostile to school, obsessed with his video games, and lacks a strong connection with an adult male role- models (Father, Coach, etc...) Many times, these boys are put on ADD "academic steroids" medication and a general listlessness takes over. It is this sort of 'common sense observations' which made the book resonate with me.

Here are a few quick facts-

  • The United States has about 5% of the world's population but consumes about 90% of the total global production of ADHD medications such as Adderall, Ritalin, Concerta, and Metadate. (Please see chapter 4 of Boys Adrift for more facts and figures about the overdiagnosis and over-prescribing of medications for ADHD in the United States.)
  • In some suburban schools, more than half of the boys are being treated with medications for ADHD."Boys in 2007 are thirty times more likely to be taking these medications compared with boys in 1987," Sax writes. He notes the distressing new research indicating that even low doses of these drugs permanently alter the nucleus accumbens, an area of the brain associated with motivation.
  • Certain types of plastics (BPa) leach chemicals into our food and water. There actually are a number of studies which show that substances found in common plastics can act as estrogens in animals and can even decrease those animal's testosterone levels and sperm production. The estrogens effect the male brain differently, by attacking the brain centers that affect motivation. In females, this brain center is not effected. Excess estrogen cause early onset puberty. It's not the hormones in meat, peoples, it's estrogen mimic chemicals that leach out of PBa plastics!
  • This increase in estrogen in women not only causes early onset puberty, but puts women at an increased risk of developing breast cancer.
  • Over the last 20 years during which we've seen an acceleration and intensification of the early elementary curriculum, there has been an explosion in the number of kids, especially boys, being diagnosed with attention-deficit disorder. Hmmmm!
  • He points out that Finland, which doesn't start education until age 7, has some of the highest test scores in the world.
  • In public schools, not so much in the elite private schools, recess has been cut back. There's less music, less art, less physical education, and more reading drills, writing drills, and arithmetic exercises. (This is often done in an ill-advised way to ensure more federal funding.) When you turn elementary school into year-round test-prep, you will see test scores rise. But that improvement comes at a price. Some students, especially boys, tune out. They lose interest. They no longer read for fun. (See chapter 2 of Boys Adrift for documentation of the lower propensity of boys to read for fun today compared with 1980.)

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Because I aim to please......

My Dr. Oz post

Pass on the Plastic from Blissfully Domestic

The Boys Adrift Website

A wonderful podcast interview with Dr. Sax complete with Q&A call-ins!

A Washington Post Op-Ed by Dr. Sax

National Review interview with Dr. Sax

Read this about what endocrine disruptors do to your body.

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Alarmed about plastics? Join the club....

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As a quick rule of thumb- Look at the recycling codes on the bottom of all your plastics. The code inside the three recycling arrows are important.

Here is what I know about what brands (sippy cups/bottles) use the type of plastic that leaches PBa's-

Unsafe plastics-

#3- PVC

#6-PS

#7-Polycarbonate {the jury is still out on this one}

Look for-

#1-PETE

#2-HDPE

#4-LDPE

#5-PP

BPA is in the canned food liners and plastic utensils. Be careful.

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Love to you all,

Alli

I'm givin' away something really cool from SimpleMom

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I have a neat giveaway for y'all! One of my best online friends, Toblerone at Simple Mom, has just released her first ebook. It's called Spring Cleaning for Normal People, and of course, everyone loves it. Personally, I think cleaning while you have little kids around is like shoveling snow in a blizzard, but this book actually makes it manageable.

Now, stop laughing at me. Yes, I have Blissfully Domestic, but y'all know I am way more Blissful than Domestic. {winks} Seriously, her book is really great. I wouldn't tell the Friends of Fussy to go on over and get it if it wouldn't rawk your sawks!

It's a 68-page guide to helping you declutter, clean, and organize the main living space of your house in around 10 days.? It's chock full of checklists, recipes for cleaners, resources, daily game plans, and templates to inventory all your stuff.? Go check it out!? It's well-written, encouraging, and a lot of fun. And at only $7, it's an inexpensive tool to help you overhaul your home. Coming from me, who would rather stick a fork in her eye than organize (ADD much?) that says quite a bit.

One more thing about the lovely Toblerone of SimpleMom- she is the editor of the Digital Bliss channel over at Blissfully Domestic.

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So, yes, she has a mega-popular blog, a book and edits the BD site. I always tell her if she wasn't the sweetest most humble chick I know then I'd be fiercely jealous! ;)

Now, go check out SimpleMom's site and come back here to enter my Spring Cleaning for Normal People giveaway. Leave a comment and tell me which part of keeping house makes YOU want to stick a fork in your eye. I'll choose the winner at random next week. Feel free to enter everyday. It will help your chances!

Love you bunches,

Alli

PS- My fellow Blissfully Domestic Diva, the lovely Gidget, is giving away this book and some really cute custom made Etsy items on her personal site, GidgetGoesHome. Yay, more free stuff. I love free stuff!

They awakened the sleeping giant

This week has been one of the most emotional I have had in years. Many of you know from twitter that my family lost a member unexpectedly. My Father-in-Law was in a car accident and passed away. As I type, Mark and I and all the kids are piled up in the car, driving 10 hours to his mother's home.

Also, I have been wrapped up in comforting the children and my husband all while tweaking the beast that is the Blissfully Domestic relaunch and handling the continued loose ends.

I was worried about my friends in the Gulf as Gustav bore down and gave very little thought to the Republican convention. I was a Romney supporter (remember when Obama, Oprah & I went to Iowa?) and I planned on reluctantly voting McCain. Then, something happened that awakened my dormant political interests.

Sarah Palin happened. The pig pile of personal attacks by the media establishment and feminist leaders I used to have respect for happened. The vicious rumors, attacks and lies that are directed at her are appalling.

I believe the viciousness will intensify as we get closer to election day. I have officially come in the game from the sidelines. Let me apologize upfront to all my Liberal readers. I love my Liberal sisters and pray we all can discuss politics and our views and avoid the vicious personal attacks some use to bully others into submission. Many of the wonderful women who work at Blissfully Domestic are strong Democrats and I value opinions from both sides. However, I for one, am disgusted by the treatment of Palin. It will back fire and will help put McCain and Palin in the White House. I just hope she has the strength to plow through what the media has in store for her.

I am so interested to get you in on the discussion. If you don't mind, please speak up in the comment section. Are you Republican, Democrat or Libertarian? Have you always been interested in politics or is it a recent interest? Could you not care less? I am so exited to here from you.

 

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"Win the election? UR doin' it right!"

Life_doesnt_suck_says_fuss_10 Sarah Palin is the reason that this Thursday Life doesn't suck as much as I thought! Join in and add your reason that life doesn't suck in the comment section!

Love, Alli